So the phone rang at eight o’clock this morning. It was the grandson calling from his ship just before he puts to sea. “You are not going to believe this but my application for service in Afghanistan has been accepted!”
How does one respond? Firstly I have to say that I am really excited for him and quite proud that he would volunteer for a war that is losing its popularity at home. Secondly I think, “Oh, crap!” Thirdly I say, “Damn, wish I could go with him!” Then I think, “Oh, crap” again.
I do know what I am really feeling now, and that is how quickly my heart went out to my daughter and her husband. I mean we are talking about a mother and father here who now will have a year to think about their son’s deployment then a terrible 6 months of him in the war zone. But I also think of how proud they will be of their boy and how this next year and a half will strengthen the mutual love that is so strong to begin with.
As Cathy said when talking about my heart condition or lack thereof, “Mom or Carolyn will do all the worrying for the family.” Certainly mom or, ‘grammy’ will hold up her end in the worry department on this occasion. Such is love of family. After all, that’s what life is all about – family.
I’ve started the count down all ready.
How does one respond? Firstly I have to say that I am really excited for him and quite proud that he would volunteer for a war that is losing its popularity at home. Secondly I think, “Oh, crap!” Thirdly I say, “Damn, wish I could go with him!” Then I think, “Oh, crap” again.
I do know what I am really feeling now, and that is how quickly my heart went out to my daughter and her husband. I mean we are talking about a mother and father here who now will have a year to think about their son’s deployment then a terrible 6 months of him in the war zone. But I also think of how proud they will be of their boy and how this next year and a half will strengthen the mutual love that is so strong to begin with.
As Cathy said when talking about my heart condition or lack thereof, “Mom or Carolyn will do all the worrying for the family.” Certainly mom or, ‘grammy’ will hold up her end in the worry department on this occasion. Such is love of family. After all, that’s what life is all about – family.
I’ve started the count down all ready.
You have fought your wars, my friend, and you have beaten the odds. You have protected your loved ones and have been true to your friends. Your battle ground now should be directed from a nice, comfortable chair and prepare for the joyous home coming of Robert. I will be there to celebrate with you.
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